Life with a medium

An introduction first then; my name is Andy Chandler and I'm one of the lead investigators of our group. I'm a long time believer having seen and experienced a vast array of odd goings on.

A few of my experiences revolve around my time working as a companion to my sister, Emma, an ex-medium with the Pembrokeshire Paranormalists. She was in contact with spirits, I have no doubt of this in my mind whatsoever.

She did a reading for my wife, Felicity, and talked about events and people she couldn't have possibly known about. Her amazing gifts, while being impressive from the outside, really did seem to torture her, she said she was in constant contact with spirits (even in her sleep) and had no way to shut it down or close her third eye.

My job as companion to her was to try and centre her and calm her down when situations got over-emotional. At a previous investigation at Margam Castle she was being overcome by a particularly nasty spirit who seemed hell bent on possession of my sister.

She fought him off but needed a calming influence to shake him entirely. What happened next was bizarre, my way of calming her was to place my hand on her forehead to cover her third eye. As soon as I placed my hand on her forehead she flew backwards like a truck had hit her.

Seconds later I was at her side and she seemed unconscious. Other members of the group rushed to our aide and, with the help of Andy Taylor, she regained her composure and was able to carry on with the investigation.

This was not the first time my role as companion let me get a rare insight into the minds of those who claim to speak with the dead, I spent a lot of time in the company of Andy Taylor and still consider him a firm friend to this day. What I was able to witness was the aftermath of a reading, investigation or an emotional communication session, and what I saw wasn't always nice.

Often my sister would lock herself away for days after an investigation in an attempt to deal with what her experiences meant to her, she was in awe of her own powers and knew what the ramifications were. She knew there was a life after death and struggled to get her head around what this meant, not just for her but for the universe.

Many nights would be wasted helping her try to come to terms with her gift. Ultimately it was wasted as, after a battle with mental health issues she lost all mediumistic powers but, in her own words "you're only given things you can deal with"

So, there's a little insight into living with a medium.

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8:07pm Wed 11 Jul 12

Hyper-injunctions says...

Interesting read.
I am never surprised at what the human mind is capable of.

As a Christian I have some doubts over what my vicar would say about all this, but as you say on your website, its just a bit of fun isn't it?
Interesting read. I am never surprised at what the human mind is capable of. As a Christian I have some doubts over what my vicar would say about all this, but as you say on your website, its just a bit of fun isn't it? Hyper-injunctions
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10:41am Thu 12 Jul 12

conspiracy says...

Hi Andy
I like reading reports on the paranormal, I have personally witnessed events throughout my life, mainly in childhood. My most vivid recollection was when I was around 10 years old. We were sent to bed around 7pm and there was not a lot to do, I remember one night I was gazing at the unshaded illuminated light bulb on the landing outside my bedroom. For some reason I started to stare deep into the bulb, I could see images that with a bit of practice was like looking at television but with the brightness turned down. I could see thousands of people, similar to a crowd coming out of a massive sports event, they were all wearing what could be described as biblical clothes/rags, just very slowly walking in one direction,all had a completely blank expression on their faces. I asked my Sunday school teacher what it was I was seeing, she looked appalled and said I must stop doing it because it was evil. I did not stop for years, in fact Sunday school and church got kicked into touch quite soon after the teachers revelations.

: )
Hi Andy I like reading reports on the paranormal, I have personally witnessed events throughout my life, mainly in childhood. My most vivid recollection was when I was around 10 years old. We were sent to bed around 7pm and there was not a lot to do, I remember one night I was gazing at the unshaded illuminated light bulb on the landing outside my bedroom. For some reason I started to stare deep into the bulb, I could see images that with a bit of practice was like looking at television but with the brightness turned down. I could see thousands of people, similar to a crowd coming out of a massive sports event, they were all wearing what could be described as biblical clothes/rags, just very slowly walking in one direction,all had a completely blank expression on their faces. I asked my Sunday school teacher what it was I was seeing, she looked appalled and said I must stop doing it because it was evil. I did not stop for years, in fact Sunday school and church got kicked into touch quite soon after the teachers revelations. : ) conspiracy
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10:54am Thu 12 Jul 12

conspiracy says...

Hi Andy
I like reading reports on the paranormal, I have personally witnessed events throughout my life, mainly in childhood. My most vivid recollection was when I was around 10 years old. We were sent to bed around 7pm and there was not a lot to do, I remember one night I was gazing at the unshaded illuminated light bulb on the landing outside my bedroom. For some reason I started to stare deep into the bulb, I could see images that with a bit of practice was like looking at television but with the brightness turned down. I could see thousands of people, similar to a crowd coming out of a massive sports event, they were all wearing what could be described as biblical clothes/rags, just very slowly walking in one direction,all had a completely blank expression on their faces. The following Sunday,I asked my Sunday school teacher what it was I was seeing, she looked appalled and said I must stop doing it because it was evil. I did not stop for years, in fact Sunday school got kicked into touch quite soon after the teachers revelations. I look forward to reading your future blogs.

Regards Peter Warrender : )
Hi Andy I like reading reports on the paranormal, I have personally witnessed events throughout my life, mainly in childhood. My most vivid recollection was when I was around 10 years old. We were sent to bed around 7pm and there was not a lot to do, I remember one night I was gazing at the unshaded illuminated light bulb on the landing outside my bedroom. For some reason I started to stare deep into the bulb, I could see images that with a bit of practice was like looking at television but with the brightness turned down. I could see thousands of people, similar to a crowd coming out of a massive sports event, they were all wearing what could be described as biblical clothes/rags, just very slowly walking in one direction,all had a completely blank expression on their faces. The following Sunday,I asked my Sunday school teacher what it was I was seeing, she looked appalled and said I must stop doing it because it was evil. I did not stop for years, in fact Sunday school got kicked into touch quite soon after the teachers revelations. I look forward to reading your future blogs. Regards Peter Warrender : ) conspiracy
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12:32pm Thu 12 Jul 12

billbob says...

its nice to see someone allowing comments on their blogs, eh peter
its nice to see someone allowing comments on their blogs, eh peter billbob
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2:57pm Thu 12 Jul 12

AndyChandler says...

Hi all, thank you so much for reading and leaving your thoughts and experiences on our blog.

We're always blown away by the experiences people have had and are always eager to hear more tales of possible paranormal going's on.

Look for more blogs from us very soon!
Hi all, thank you so much for reading and leaving your thoughts and experiences on our blog. We're always blown away by the experiences people have had and are always eager to hear more tales of possible paranormal going's on. Look for more blogs from us very soon! AndyChandler
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